Dance like no one is looking
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Pompano Beach, Florida | Nainen Hae A Miestä
Perus Informaatio
Osaan puhua
Englanti
Kuvailisin itseäni
(I'll be moving to South Florida end of June, from Nashville, TN)
Jimmy Buffett summed it up: I'd rather die while I'm living than live while I'm dead. I'm passionate about life itself, new adventures, exploring the inner and outer world, being positive, hopelessly hopeful, creative, witty, curious. I love people (one or a few at a time, humanity as a whole is often questionable).
As far as relationships: I'm interested in starting out as friends, then friends with benefits perhaps, then long-term commitment (not necessarily formal marriage). Monogamy, at that point, is important. Communication is essential. Mutual respect even more so. I prefer a man who actually likes women. No married or otherwise commited men, please.
My perfect match would be: Robert Redford. Okay, okay, RR's probably not on here. So...(1) Drug and STD free; (2) Has or had a job, can be retired; (3) Spark in the eyes; (4) Creative (or at least appreciating creativity); (5) Open-minded; (6) A little kink in the bedroom would be nice; (7) Positive (no depressed people please); (8) Able to dance (major plus); (9) Adventurous; (10) Available/attentive/likes to spend time together (though not every minute); (11) Relatively healthy; (12) Non-fundamentalist in any religion; (13) Some interest in spirituality/new age ideas/cross-cultural wisdoms; (14) Good sense of humor. I could go on, but I'm aware that I might fall in love with someone who doesn't fit my list. Could happen.
What makes a relationship work, in my opinion (of which I have many, but they're mine and no one else has to agree), is respect, communication, time shared, intimacy, trust, honesty, laughter, tears, taking the time to learn each other's dreams, desires, wounds, passions, fears and hopes---and to take those seriously, lend support, allow room for change, and honor each other's processes. (Well, Match did ask for "perfect.")
It would be nice to share interests from the start, but there's always some fun involved in trying something new, just because the person I like enjoys it and wants to share it with me. Sailing, for instance, would be on that list, as would NASCAR.
Getting to know each other should be a continuous endeavor from the first hello to the last goodbye.
Jimmy Buffett summed it up: I'd rather die while I'm living than live while I'm dead. I'm passionate about life itself, new adventures, exploring the inner and outer world, being positive, hopelessly hopeful, creative, witty, curious. I love people (one or a few at a time, humanity as a whole is often questionable).
As far as relationships: I'm interested in starting out as friends, then friends with benefits perhaps, then long-term commitment (not necessarily formal marriage). Monogamy, at that point, is important. Communication is essential. Mutual respect even more so. I prefer a man who actually likes women. No married or otherwise commited men, please.
My perfect match would be: Robert Redford. Okay, okay, RR's probably not on here. So...(1) Drug and STD free; (2) Has or had a job, can be retired; (3) Spark in the eyes; (4) Creative (or at least appreciating creativity); (5) Open-minded; (6) A little kink in the bedroom would be nice; (7) Positive (no depressed people please); (8) Able to dance (major plus); (9) Adventurous; (10) Available/attentive/likes to spend time together (though not every minute); (11) Relatively healthy; (12) Non-fundamentalist in any religion; (13) Some interest in spirituality/new age ideas/cross-cultural wisdoms; (14) Good sense of humor. I could go on, but I'm aware that I might fall in love with someone who doesn't fit my list. Could happen.
What makes a relationship work, in my opinion (of which I have many, but they're mine and no one else has to agree), is respect, communication, time shared, intimacy, trust, honesty, laughter, tears, taking the time to learn each other's dreams, desires, wounds, passions, fears and hopes---and to take those seriously, lend support, allow room for change, and honor each other's processes. (Well, Match did ask for "perfect.")
It would be nice to share interests from the start, but there's always some fun involved in trying something new, just because the person I like enjoys it and wants to share it with me. Sailing, for instance, would be on that list, as would NASCAR.
Getting to know each other should be a continuous endeavor from the first hello to the last goodbye.
Kirjaudu
Neitsyt
Ulkonäkö ja Tilanne
Vartalonmallini on
Kurvikas
Pituuteni on
5' 4 (1.63 m)
Silmienvärini on
Pähkinä
Etninen taustani on
Ashkenazi
Aviosäätyni on
Eronnut
Minulla on lapsia
Ei
Haluan lapsia
En ole varma
Paras puoleni on
Kädet
Ulkonäkö
Lävistetty... Mutta vain korvista
Hiukseni ovat
Ruskea
Minulla on yksi tai kaksi tällaista
Ei lemmikeitä
Olen valmis muuttamaan
Kyllä
Tila
Koulutukseni taso on
Korkeakoulu tutkinto
Työllisyys tilanteeni on
Yrittäjä
Erikoistun
Muu
Työ tittelini on
psychotherapist, writer, webentrepreneur
Asun
Yksin
Kotona
Ystävät vierailevat satunnaisesti
Tupakoin
Ei
Juon
Kyllä - Seurassa
Persoonallisuus
Yläasteella olin
Aivot
Sosiaalinen käyttäytymiseni
Ystävällinen, Flirttaileva, Aina menossa
Kiinnostuksen kohteet ja Harrastukseni ovat
Kuntoilu, Taide & Käsityöt, Lukeminen, Musiikki, Tv, Tanssiminen, Perhe, Ruokailla, Valokuvat, Uskonto / Hengellisyys, Matkustaminen, Puutarhanhoito, Telttailu
Käsitykseni mukavasta ajanvietteestä on
Kavereiden kanssa hengailu, Bilettäminen, Shoppailu, Uusien asioiden kokeilu, Menen Kasinolle, Pukeutumisleikit, Museossa käyminen
Unelma treffini olisivat
Flowers, definitely. A small, quiet restaurant where we can hear each other talk. Courtesy and gentlemanly behavior.
Olen aina halunnut kokeilla
Hot-air ballooning. (well, they asked) I've also always wanted to try being deeply in love with someone deeply in love with me.
Kaverini kuvailevat minun olevan
Ystävällinen, Joku jota muut kadehtii, suosittu, Flirtti
Katsomukset
Uskontoni on
Ulkopuolinen
Käyn säännöllisesti
Kerran vuodessa
Tavoitteeni elämässäni on
I don't have 'one' goal in life---I'm not that evolved. So of my many goals, here are a few. (1) To be loved by someone I love. (2) My novels published by a major publisher and selling well. (3) Hit songs making money. (4) Healthy and maintaining my ideal weight. (5) Successful psychotherapy practice. (6) e-Book empire making lots of money while I sleep. (7) A two-lane lap pool in a new backyard attached to a different house (don't ask...long story).
Minun tapainen huumori on
Älykäs, Kuiva / Sarkastinen, Ystävällinen, Hassu, Epävarma, Roisi
Maku
Televisiosta katson
Draamat, Tilannekomediat, Elokuvat, Tosi TV
Kun menen elokuviin, lähden katsomaan
Scifi, Komedia, Romanssi, Draama
Kun kuuntelen musiikkia, kuuntelen aina
Country musiikki, Rock musiikki, Klassinen, Blues musiikki, Jazz musiikki, Latina, New age musiikki, Kaiken kattava, Dance musiikki, Reggae musiikki, Folk musiikki
Kun luen, luen aina
Liiketoiminta, Klassinen, Fantasia, Kaunokirjallisuus, Terveys, Koti & Puutarha, Huumori, Neuvoa antavat, Musiikki, Mysteeri, Luonto, Filosofia, Uskonnollinen, Scifi, Olen Kirjailija
Etsii
Mikä sinua vetää puoleensa?
Viisaus, Hyvä ulkonäkö, Huumori, Hyvät taidot, Empatia, Herkkyys, Kaljuus, Kummallisuus, Spontaanisuus, Raha, Voima, Flirttaileva, Nokkela, Ajattelevaisuus
Mitä etsit?
A man not afraid to be a man and not afraid of a strong woman (I don't mean bossy). A man who cares about his health (disease and drug-free) and mine, but doesn't have to obsess about it. A man with an open mind and a generous heart. A man who is intelligent and funny, who can take life seriously at times and see the absurdity in it at others. Someone not afraid of new experiences, thoughts, ideas. Someone who likes people. Honest, kind, thoughtful, of course. Able to dance is helpful but not required. Handsome enough that children and puppies don't run screaming when they see him. Supportive emotionally; encouraging; positive outlook is really important.
Minkälaista suhdetta etsit?
Avioliitto, Sitoutunut