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I Can Speak

English

I Would Describe Myself As

what you want to know about me is that i am all about the truth. i keep it real, and will always make room for you to do the same. i am silly, and uninhibited, and playful, with tons of "young energy". i am not sure when all the grown ups...grew up, but i must have missed that bus!

i am totally comfy in my skin, and i think that is what self-confidence is all about. not being full of yourself...just being really ok with who you are....inside and out...flaws and all.

i am totally affectionate, no matter where we are, i want to touch and be touched. i am a hopeless romantic....notes, cards, surprises...i will do it all for the one i am with..i have to, it is who i am. it is not "work" to do those gestures, it would be work not to.

i love simple pleasures. listening to tunes, a popsicle by the pool, a jacuzzi where all we do is appreciate each other. i think the simple pleasures far outweigh the hooplah of material things. it is not to say that i do not like nice things, just as long as they are for true pleasure and comfort...and never to be flaunted as a sign of prestige or status.

i am compassionate, loyal, deep, and reliable, and live my life with purpose. integrity is everything. for me, intelligence offers the most profound erotica there is. not academic intelligence..just "getting" someone else, in the deepest sense. i believe we are on this planet to give back, and for me...i get my adrenaline rush from doing just that...not because i have to ....because it just feels really good.

because i decided to change my job from management in a corporate career to work in a field connected to caring, healing and wellness; i went to graduate school, and got my MASTER'S DEGREE in 2007. it became purposeful to connect how i want to live, with how i make my living. finally, the 2 now align. i recently launched my own practice in town (life coaching/executive coaching/relationship coaching)...and have just been accepted into a PhD program starting in a couple of weeks! (beware if you ask me about any of this...i am so passionate about it all....you just may not want to get me started)! :)

i love and adore my 2 kids (they are the ones in the pix with me)! these 2 amazing, loving creatures are the best friends i could have ever wished for. my daughter just graduated college this summer, while my son just graduated highschool...and off to college my baby goes. (can this really be happening?) i have to say....i never thought i would be facing this "empty-nesting" chapter on my own. (i guess none of us on these sites did...right)?

so while i celebrate the phenominal job these children are doing launching themselves toward their hopes and dreams...i can't deny that i am also somewhat melancholy as i ponder my kids truly leaving me in a way i have never really known. my heavy-heart continues to be an insecurity for me...(see, she is already admitting her flaws!) i have shed many tears as i prepare for the last one to launch...

what i can say though is ~ i don't know how i got so lucky to live this life, but i never stop counting my blessings. i have my share of hard times, i don't deny that, i just feel lucky that i am "wired" to see life through a perspective of positivity. there are always 2 ways to see everything, and with every tragedy, a blessing can be found. you may have to look hard, but it is there. humor is everything to me. even in the darkest of times...it is the greatest of gifts. it is with me every day...there is always some reason to laugh in EVERY day. life is too short not to.

i really want to share all of me with the partner i hope to find! no walls, no games, no b.s.....just pure, simple, and deep intimate love. i want to communicate everything, go to places inside that just us 2 know, get serious, and then simultaneously be able to be silly, and find so much passion...that we want to rip eachother's clothes off..every day...for the rest of our lives!

Sign

Pisces

My Body Type Is

Slim

My Height Is

5' 7 (1.7 m)

My Eyes Are

Brown

My Ethnicity Is

Other

My Marital Situation Is

Divorced

I Have Kids

Yes - Not At Home

I Want Kids

No

My Best Feature Is

Smile

Body Art

Other

My Hair Is

Light Brown

I Have One Or More Of These

No pets

Willing To Relocate

No

My Education Level Is

University Degree

My Current Employment Status Is

Self-employed

My Speciality Is

Other

My Job Title Is

Life Coach / Relationship Cch & Exec Cch

I Make This Much In A Year

$60,000USD To $74,999USD

I Live

Alone, With Kid(s)

At Home

All Is Calm

I'm A Smoker

No

I Drink

Yes - Socially

Back In High School, I Was A

Cool Dude

My Social Behavior Is

Outgoing

My Interest And Hobbies Are

Dancing, Dining, Family, Learning, Movies, Music, Photography, Reading, Theater, Travel, Volunteering

My Idea Of A Great Time Is

Hanging Out With Friends, Going Shopping, Going To A Concert, Playing Dress-up, Relaxing, Sleeping, Staying At Home, The Movies, Trying New Things, Tv

An Ideal First Date Would Be

every first date might be different, but what i do know is this.....it is all about the connection. it is not about where we go, or how fancy, or how expensive, or meant to impress.

i just want to be down-to-earth, and know that we can feel connected and comfortable. i hope we have butterflies, and both just can't stop talking. time should fly by, but we have enough time to keep on...just being together.....and it should be really obvious that we both want to be together again (and probably again and again in our thoughts)...:)

I've Always Wanted To Try

being more brave to do the things that i fear.

My Friends Describe Me As Being

Friendly, Cool, Goofy

My Religion Is

Reform

I Attend Services

Never

My Political Views Are

Not Sure

My Goal In Life Is

to make sure my kids believe in themselves and never stop reaching for their dreams, to live and act with clean intentions, and to love and touch as many as i can in a way that somehow just makes the world better before i go. "pay it forward" kinda deal.

My Kind Of Humor Is

Clever, Friendly, Goofy

On Tv, I Always Watch

Situation Comedies, Reality Shows

When I Go To The Movies, I Always Go To See A

Action, Comedy, Romance, Drama, Family, Thriller

When Listening To Music, I Always Listen To

Ambient, Dance, New age, Pop, Soul

When I Read, I Always Read

Business, Health, Philosophy, Reference, I Don't Like Reading

My Idea Of Fun Is

sun. sand. pool. beach. warmth. plays. musicals. people-watching. shopping. weekend getaways. intimate time with the one i want to be with...and always EATING. anywhere, everywhere...eating!!!

What Do You Find Attractive?

Boldness, Empathy, Good Looks, Great Skills, Humor, Intelligence, Money, Sensitivity, Spontaneity, Thoughtfullness, Wit

What Do You Look For?

i look for a man who is self confident. someone who is humble and really cares about others. someone who is chivalrous is who i hope to find...not about pulling out a chair, but about really wanting to cherish his girl and always have her back. i just want to find an honest man who finds it easy to adore me. someone who roots for me, and will also let me root for him every step of the way. i want us to make eachother the best potential we can possibly be.

What Kind Of Relationship Are You Seeking?

Marriage, Committed