Spirited, Diff'rent Loving Sweetie

I Can Speak

English, French, Hebrew, Other

I Would Describe Myself As

A woman of valor, laughter and passion. A non-standard deviation. Not a Princess. Looking for a Mensch to share life, not searching for Prince Charming to rescue me.

My taste is diverse and eclectic: $.02 plain & champagne; leather & silk charmeuse; The NY Met & the Brooklyn Dodgers.

Learning/trying something new ranks high on a list of favorite things to do, by myself or with someone. I'll try almost anything 2 or 3 times; if it seems fun, I'll want more, and if it seems weird, I'll give it the benefit of the doubt and figure what may have seemed unpleasant might have simply been unknown.

Friends come to me for counsel, help, good food, parties, and visits. I enjoy backgammon, Apples to Apples, bridge, Scrabble, and many other games - but definitely not head games.

My illusions left long ago to live with the skeletons in my closet, but my ideals, albeit not quite as pristine, still shine brightly.

I believe in one God but lots of possible True Loves, b'shertim. Personal growth, experience and insight will shift the parameters For a Soulmate, just as what one survives makes one stronger.

Sign

Sagittarius

My Body Type Is

Curvy

My Height Is

5' 6 (1.68 m)

My Eyes Are

Hazel

My Ethnicity Is

Ashkenazi

My Marital Situation Is

Divorced

I Have Kids

Yes - Not At Home

I Want Kids

No

My Best Feature Is

Eyes

Body Art

Other

My Hair Is

Dark Brown

I Have One Or More Of These

Other, No pets

Willing To Relocate

Yes

My Education Level Is

University Degree

My Current Employment Status Is

Self-employed

My Speciality Is

Other

My Job Title Is

Chief cook and buck-stopper

I Live

Alone

At Home

Friends Come Over Often

I'm A Smoker

No

I Drink

Yes - Socially

Back In High School, I Was A

Brain

My Social Behavior Is

Reserved, Shy, Friendly, Flirtatious, Outgoing

My Interest And Hobbies Are

Exercising, Arts & Crafts, Sports, Reading, Learning, Music, Tv, Movies, Internet, Games, Dancing, Family, Dining, Photography, Religion / Spirituality, Theater, Travel, Cooking, Gardening, Cars, Camping, Fishing / Hunting, Playing Cards, Volunteering, Computers

My Idea Of A Great Time Is

Hanging Out With Friends, Partying, Staying At Home, Trying New Things, The Movies, Relaxing, Sleeping, Reading A Book, Playing Dress-up, Tv, Going To A Concert, Going To A Museum

An Ideal First Date Would Be

In person :)

I've Always Wanted To Try

Flying. Developing film. Driving cross-country, US & elsewhere. Riding a race horse.

My Friends Describe Me As Being

Friendly, Troublemaker, Someone They Want To Be, Cool, Raunchy, Obscure, A Flirt

My Religion Is

Traditional

I Attend Services

Once A Month

My Political Views Are

Middle Of The Road

My Goal In Life Is

to make a difference for the better in the lives I touch directly or indirectly. To reduce violence, abuse and hate. To follow my heart and my vision into reality.

As our Tradition teaches:
To pursue that which is just, fair and right.
To live and love with all my heart, with all my mind, with all my soul.
To teach my children well, especially that they are loved unconditionally..
To do my best to reach goals and not to stop trying.
To bring healing, peace and wholeness.
To be a person of action and understanding.
To enjoy life's blessings every day.

And, on a less esoteric level, to lead a good, happy life, ideally with a Partner who cherishes and loves me as I do him.


PS: My flavor of Judaism seems to blend easily with several different categories [as listed here].
I am "deeply Jewish" and have a decent Jewish education, but I am not frum.

My Kind Of Humor Is

Clever, Dry / Sarcastic, Friendly, Goofy, Obscure, Raunchy, Sadistic

On Tv, I Always Watch

News, Documentaries, Dramas, Situation Comedies, Instructional, Movies, Sports, Reality Shows, Re-runs

When I Go To The Movies, I Always Go To See A

Action, Science Fiction, Comedy, Romance, Drama, Documentary, Family, Animation, Thriller, Adult

When Listening To Music, I Always Listen To

Country, Rock, Pop, Classical, Blues, Jazz, Latin, New age, Ambient, Dance, Soul, Reggae, Folk, Punk

When I Read, I Always Read

News, Ancient, Anthology, Auto-biography, Biography, Business, Classic, Comic, Computers, Fantasy, Fiction, Health, History, Home & Garden, Horror, Humor, Instructional, Mathematics, Music, Mystery, Nature, Philosophy, Political, Reference, Poetry, Religious, Satire, Science, Science Fiction, Technical, I'm An Author

My Idea Of Fun Is

Almost anything with a friend. Learning - or teaching - and doing, Dancing [ballroom & other]. Live music. Theater. Travel/Exploring. Being with friends & family. Tikkun Olam. Creative cooking. Snorkeling & other "on water" sports. Extending hospitality. Play parties. Making a difference. Writing. Ikebana. Lively discussions. Reading. Museums. Antiquing. Installing a water heater. .Horses. Gardening. Planning surprise parties. Torah/text study. Trying new things, usually at least 2-3 times.

What Do You Find Attractive?

Intelligence, Good Looks, Humor, Great Skills, Empathy, Sensitivity, Boldness, Oddities, Spontaneity, Money, Power, Flirtatiousness, Wit, Thoughtfullness

What Kind Of Relationship Are You Seeking?

Friend, Date, Marriage, Committed