fitness and love with my sweatheart

I Can Speak

English

I Would Describe Myself As

I'm a nice guy who thrives on being physically active, emotionally available and open, trustworthy, intelligent, fun, thankful for what I do have, and wants to share my life with a lovely woman who has similar traits.

I've been a competitive distance runner in high school and college and beyond up to present time. I love the physical sensation of running. At times it is extremely sensual and peaceful, even if I'm running at a hard effort over many miles.

I'm fascinated with human behavior. For twenty-seven years I was a professor of Sociology at California State University, Fullerton. Since 1984, I have been
a psychotherapist in private practice in Westlake Village, California. I truly love helping people get to the core of their emotional problems and resolving them with the kind of therapy I do which is called Intensive Short-Term Dynamic Psychotherapy.

I've written two screenplays with a dear friend of mine, also a shrink. We're now attempting to get them sold and we have lots more ideas for movie scripts. Our screenplays tend to be about relationships--more on the chick-flick spectrum than on the super-macho chase and destroy mode.

I'm on this fitness/dates program to do more than just have lots of dates that peter out. I'm definitely looking for a wonderful woman who is fitness oriented who wants to share a deep relationship with me. The depth of our relationship will rest on honesty, respect, and the capacity for feeling and sharing emotional closeness.

Sign

Scorpio

My Body Type Is

Fit

My Height Is

5' 9 (1.75 m)

My Eyes Are

Brown

My Ethnicity Is

Ashkenazi

My Marital Situation Is

Divorced

I Have Kids

Yes - Not At Home

My Best Feature Is

Smile

Body Art

Wouldn't Even Think About It

My Hair Is

Salt And Pepper

I Have One Or More Of These

Dog

Willing To Relocate

No

My Education Level Is

University Degree

My Current Employment Status Is

Self-employed

My Speciality Is

Medical / Health

My Job Title Is

psychotherapist in private practice

I Make This Much In A Year

$60,000USD To $74,999USD

I Live

Alone

At Home

All Is Calm

I'm A Smoker

No

I Drink

No

Back In High School, I Was A

Jock

My Social Behavior Is

Friendly, Observant, Outgoing

My Interest And Hobbies Are

Cooking, Dancing, Exercising, Family, Learning, Movies, Music, Reading, Religion / Spirituality, Sports, Theater, Travel, Tv

My Idea Of A Great Time Is

Hanging Out With Friends, Going To A Concert, Going To A Museum, Reading A Book, Relaxing, Staying At Home, The Movies, Trying New Things, Tv

An Ideal First Date Would Be

For she and I to be completely satisfied with our being together and wanting more dates to follow.

I've Always Wanted To Try

I have tried to do what I've wanted--often succeeding and sometimes failing, but I haven't held back from trying. And this has been good for me in that I have no regrets about not trying to get what I wanted.

My Friends Describe Me As Being

Friendly

My Religion Is

Reform

I Attend Services

Once A Month

My Political Views Are

Conservative

My Goal In Life Is

Living each day to the fullest, doing my best for myself and others, and to help make the world a better place than yesterday.

My Kind Of Humor Is

Clever, Friendly, Goofy, Slapstick

On Tv, I Always Watch

News, Documentaries, Movies, Sports

When I Go To The Movies, I Always Go To See A

Comedy, Romance, Drama, Documentary, Family

When Listening To Music, I Always Listen To

Classical, Country, Dance, Electronic, Folk, Pop, Reggae, Rock

When I Read, I Always Read

Auto-biography, Biography, Health, History, Humor, News, Science, Sports, Technical, I'm An Author

My Idea Of Fun Is

My idea of fun is to enjoy the moments of pleasure that sweep through me as I live my life. Much of my fun--joy and pleasure--comes at times when I'm not necessarily planning fun.

I have fun being with people I care about and with whom I have warm, loving feelings. I have fun watching people. I have fun eating foods I like, helping other people, being with my two awesome dogs (the're goldendoodles), giving and receiving physical touch with mammals--mostly humans--I love, and allowing my body to have the physical sensations of my emotions. I love being at the beach, especially when there are exceptionally low tides.

Having long runs, holding hands with my lover, sharing time and emotions are wonderfully fun, too. Going to sleep with my lover is fun and so is what we do before we go to sleep.

What Do You Find Attractive?

Boldness, Empathy, Flirtatiousness, Good Looks, Great Skills, Humor, Intelligence, Oddities, Power, Sensitivity, Spontaneity, Thoughtfullness, Wit

What Do You Look For?

A woman who has the desire and capicity for giving and receiving love, desiring emotional closeness, and having the ability to effectively deal with conflict.

What Kind Of Relationship Are You Seeking?

Marriage, Committed